Even in good marriages, challenges exist. The emotional toll of a failing relationship can make legal decisions overwhelming. If you’re considering legal separation or divorce, having experienced and level-headed attorneys by your side is crucial.
Considerations for divorce or legal separation:
- Know your finances: Create a comprehensive list of all known bank accounts, credit cards, loans, digital wallets, and investments in your name and/or your spouse’s name. It is essential to save copies of account statements for each financial account, as well as all tax returns filed during the marriage. Moreover, take photos of all valuable assets in the current condition.
- Consider the Children: If you and your spouse have minor children, there are additional considerations for the children’s living arrangements, division of childcare costs, and extracurricular activities. Engaging a therapist, social worker, or guidance counselor can provide valuable support for your children as they navigate the divorce process.
- Safety is Priority: If you are in immediate danger or facing the threat of violence, please call 911 immediately. If you have experienced domestic violence, document the incident by filing a police report and seek safe housing. For assistance with safe housing options in Macomb County, please reach out to Turning Point at 586-463-6990. In Oakland County, contact Haven at 248-334-1274 for support.
- Do What Is Best for You: While it is beneficial to consult with friends, family, attorneys, and therapists, the decision to file for divorce ultimately rests with you. Take your time to reflect and avoid rushing into significant decisions without careful consideration.
Attorneys Nina M. Lotarski and Michael Kostuch understand the delicate nature of these situations, especially when dealing with issues like abuse, infidelity, or theft. Let us guide you through the process, allowing you to focus on the next chapter of your life. Please call Aloia Law to schedule a pre-divorce consultation at 586-783-3300.